Because you might spend money on someone instead of giving it to the WBTS. Same goes for Christmas. Shoshana
La Capra
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Question from a non-member about birthdays.
by OldBen ini'm curious why jehovah's witnesses don't celebrate birthdays.
can anyone offer any help?
thanks in advance.
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Senator Bednar Leaves Watchtower!
by Voyager inthis forum has uncovered many jws who were found out to be political officials.
if this information should be old to some,--then perhaps for those who have just left the borg, might find the information helpful to reinforce their freedom.
the thread is very long, so if it should not work, then please go to kent steinhaug's forum at watchtower observer.. http://kent.steinhaug.com/forum/showthread.php?s=f3aa440065982e1f53cc3efe02055681&threadid=2744 .
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La Capra
I just checked in my nightstand, and you weren't there!!! I'm going to complain to my senators.
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Senator Bednar Leaves Watchtower!
by Voyager inthis forum has uncovered many jws who were found out to be political officials.
if this information should be old to some,--then perhaps for those who have just left the borg, might find the information helpful to reinforce their freedom.
the thread is very long, so if it should not work, then please go to kent steinhaug's forum at watchtower observer.. http://kent.steinhaug.com/forum/showthread.php?s=f3aa440065982e1f53cc3efe02055681&threadid=2744 .
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La Capra
Not BS my green rubber friend, posters just aren't paying attention to what they are reading. This "Senator Bednar" is a college student involved in student government. When you read the links, you can see they are talking about campus life and issues relevant to that arena (sororities, fraternities,athletics, etc.). Often, at a high school or college, those students who act as representatives for the student body are called "senators." That is what they are called at the high school where I teach. When taken in this context, this whole Senator Bednar thing is funny. I hope we can laugh at ourselves over this. Shoshana
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I dread Christmas this year.
by Vivamus ini dread christmas this year.. i have no-one to celebrate it with.. .
i mean, sure, i could invite myself to join in the merryment at some friends places.
but all my friends are celebrating with their parents, and so i won't do that.
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La Capra
Christmas has never been my cup of tea. It has always been totally secular for me. It is also my birthday. This year I will be in travelling with my aunt and uncle. It will also be Hanukah, and my aunt's birthday, and a Radish Festival, which means I will have definite celebration. But when I am "in town" for the holiday, I do a few things to make it celebratory for myself. The first is to get the money I would have spent on my JW relatives (if they weren't JWs) and give it away to the poor homeless folks that are out in the cold on Christmas morning. There are also soup kitchens that need volunteers during the holiday season. In the U.S. there are always lots of programs where one can "adopt" a needy family and help make their Christmas. I have done any number of volunteery things during the season that have infused the season with meaning that I just don't bring to it myself. I can attest to the fact that spending it with people who feel obliged to be there, buy each other gifts and "make a party" falls pretty flat too. But, if you are going to spend the day feeling sorry for yourself, start planning now for lots of self-indulgent treats, movies, books, and other guilty pleasures to make it all worth it. There is no incorrect, or wrong way to spend the day, especially if you switch to green bubblegum for the day. Shoshana
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Watchtower Society Sued For Covering Up For Molestor Derek Packowski
by qua insacramento vicinity (loomis, rocklin, sunset congregations): court documents were just issued charging derek packowski and the watchtower society corporations.
the papers were filed by the legal firm of nolen saul brelsford of sacramento, california.
the child molestor and said corporations headed by the governing body over jehovah?s witnesses, were charged with not reporting to law enforcement and systematically conspiring and suppressing information about sexual molestation committed by packowski when he was in a congregation in des plaines, illinois, also after about 1984 and later in california at the loomis congregation from which formed the rocklin and sunset congregations.
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La Capra
"John Does" are listed so plaintiffs' case won't be dismissed for failure to name relevant parties to the action in their initial pleading papers. Also it allows the complaint to be amended if the identities of more defendants come to light during discovery, without having to start all over. Its just a civil procedure game to ensure that this won't get tossed on a procedure technicality. And who says posting here interferes with my studying for my civ pro midterm? HAH!!! Shoshana
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Where were you at 33 years of age?
by DanTheMan ini've managed to survive 33 years (and a couple of weeks).
what a long strange trip it's been.. in spite of some tell-tale signs of aging (wrinkles around eyes, gray hair, mystified and sometimes terrified by the current youth culture) in some ways i still feel like a little kid who doesn't know anything.
what have you learned since then?
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La Capra
That was two years ago for me. I had been teaching for ten years, and getting really bored. It was about that time that I took stock of my life and decided to make changes, like go to law school, practice Judaism, and clean up my emotional health. I had accomplished a lot "on paper" by 33, but I was socially and emotionally barren. I'm pleased to report that progress, though slow, is being made on that front. I am almost halfway through with law school, and am feeling much more mentally balanced (thanks to this board and a good psychologist who is experienced in problems related to JWs). Shoshana
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La Capra
Hey, Minimus, maybe it has something to do with its presence countering the doctrine of the holy trinity. But I think it has more to do with the fact that by tradition "lord" (adonai) was uttered instead.
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La Capra
YHVH, or at least those letters are as close to the Hebrews letters we can get in our letters. It shows up a lot, it just was never intended to be pronounced, except by the high priest in the inner temple. We know how practically everything else was pronounced because the ORAL tradition carried it down until someone had the sense to start using vowels. In my limited Hebrew training, I can see from those four letters, if other Hebrew pronunciation rules apply, there are probably TWO syllables. My rabbi told me that scholars of Hebrew and the Jewish bible consider the pronunciation "jehovah" to be a comical, farsical rendition. Kind of like some posters here use the phrase "paradise erf" (I love that one) or "jehoober" (another funny one). Some scholars say that because when YHVH appears in prayers it is uttered "adonai" that the vowel sounds in "adonai" were what was used for the vowels in Jehovah (not quite, from my view), by whomever began using that pronunciation (not the Jewish scholars, that's for sure). For me, I find it that name, or any singular name, too limiting to address all that is encomassed by the notion of a singular, all powerful, sovereign of the universe. I have always wondered why JWs don't wear little gold engravings of the tetragrammaton on necklaces. My mom used to have a little window decal of it that she put in our car window. Shoshana
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Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
by copsec inanyone live there or been there?
is it great?
i am going for a week in february for a little r & r and really looking forward to it.
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La Capra
Don Eduardo tequila is even better. In Mexico, the cabs are really cheap, but ask for the fare in advance, before getting in. And tip the cab drivers. Renting a car there is so expensive, and the cabs so cheap, that this is the way to go. Sign up for some professional tours of the area (they let you drink on the bus), for campy entertainment. I was in the area in 1991 (Zihuataneju) and Cabo in 96. I'm off to Oaxaca next month. The most important thing to remember is to find a cantina that makes good margaritas, chips and salsa, and spend a few hours there every afternoon "resting", visiting with your companions and getting out of the sun. Chill. Shoshana
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Should the JW congregation keep a wriiten record of sins commited ?
by fearnotruth22 inany jw that has been disciplined by a judicial comiitee has the particulars of the sin he has been didsiplined for in a file kept by the elders inside a file cabinet containing other such records in that little room in the back .
that information is aceesible to elders with the key to the file cabinet.
years may go by but the file remains, even when a jw dies the file remains until elders wish to throw it out.
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La Capra
I guess I never knew about this envelope in the file thing. When I read about these things that I know I was oblivious to growing up, it fits in with all my emotional injuries and struggles I still wage war on daily. My inability to forgive myself and let go of my past mistakes could very possibly come directly from the emotional culture that requires such permanent records of mistakes. No wonder I never believed that Jesus really died for our sins...Shoshana